Karolyne Garner will speak at the April meeting of the Baxter Society. This will be held on Zoom on Wednesday, April 9, at 6:00 ET.

Karolyne Hu Cheng Garner is General Counsel for LawProse Inc. She specializes in intellectual property, patents, and litigation. She and her husband Bryan, both members of the Grolier Club, share a library of some 38,000 volumes at their home in Dallas.
Karolyne collects books of etiquette. She describes the beginnings of her collecting like this:
A book here and a book there. Isn’t that how most collections begin? Mine began with Jane Austen and evolved into books on etiquette, something thickly woven into Austen’s stories. My first book was a journal where I pasted in columns from Dear Abby and Miss Manners. Now, with guidance and help from my book-collecting husband, Bryan, my collection extends beyond what people traditionally consider etiquette—beyond the stuffy Victorian-era or good-manners tomes devoted to weddings and fine engagements.
Etiquette is about empathy and sympathy for others. That’s why Austen’s works are intriguing—etiquette ranges from societal measuring sticks to barbs spread by gossips. While the current arbiter elegantiarum, Miss Manners (aka Judith Martin), gently shows us how to be better versions of ourselves, many continually misunderstand the genre.